Thursday, September 4, 2008

Where Do You Go

Where do you go when You're Lonely?
I'll follow you
She falls asleep,
dreaming she's in his arms

Late at Night
When all the world is sleeping
I stay up & think of you
And I wish on a Star
That somewhere you are thinking of me too

Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Na main Pass Us Ko Bula Saka Na main Dil Ki Baat Suna Saka

Na main Pass Us Ko Bula Saka
Na main Dil Ki Baat Suna Saka

Woh Hansi Hansi main hi Chal diya
Kay main Haath taak na hila Saka

Usay kiya khabar Mujhe kiya Hoya
Mujhe kitna gehrea khomar thaa

Main Ghira thaa Us Kay Hisar main
Meray Ird-Gird Ghubar thaa

yeah bhi Theek hai woh Chala Gaya Mujhe Bund Rastay pe chor kay
Yeah Bhi Theek hai woh na Aya ga Kabhi Buut Ana kay toor kay

Na Hai Dushmani Kisi Din say Aaab
Na Hai dosting Kisi Raat say

Aab Bacha hi kiya woh jo lay gaya
Mujhe cheen kar meri zaat se

Unhi soachta raha dair taak
Magar usko kuch na bata Saka

Woh muqaam hi thaa kuch ajeeb sa
Kay main khood ko hi na bacha saka

Usay jana tha woh chala gaya
Usay aaj tak na bula Saka

Na main Pass Us Ko Bula Saka
Na main Dil Ki Baat Suna Saka

Bohaat Mudad kay baad

Bohaat Mudad kay baad

kal jaab kitab-e-mazi ko maine khola

Bohaat se charay nazar main utray

bohaat se namoo pe dil pasija

Ek asa safa bhi uss main aya

Likha hoya thaa jo ansooon se

Kay jis ka unwan humsafar thaa

Woh safha sub se moutbar thaa

Kuch or Ansoo phir uss pe tapkay

Usay agay main parh na paya

Kitab-e-mazi ko bund kar kay

Usi ki yadoon main khogaya main

Agar woh milta to kasa hota

Inhe khayalon main so gaya main


By Moshin Naqvi

What Is Love?

True Love!!!

A human life a so complicated that still we humans aren't able to understand the whole of its Philosophy.

It’s very difficult to say how love takes Birth. When and where it takes Birth?

When the 1st Human take birth Adam (A.S) at that time love was create. Al-Mighty Allah in Holy Quran said,

"We created man and put love and affection in its heart for each other".



What is Love?

According to Me as I feel and conquered till yet the philosophy of love is that,
Love is a combination of four things feelings, believe, trust and sacrifice.

What is Feeling?
What is Believe?
What is Trust?
Why Trust and believe are separately mentioned?
What is Sacrifice?



What is Feeling?

Feeling (Ehsaas) :
A person in love with any, it doesn't depend that in which sub kind of love it is, must have feeling for that person(s). It must realize the things which are the needs of the person it loves. If there is no Feeling (Ehsaas) than how it can be in love?


What is Believe?

Believe :
A person in love, must have believe on, to whom it loves. believe is some thing like you can say, if he/she says that it is hungry, a lover must believe on it that it is saying truth. If there isn't Believe than how it can be in love?


What is Trust?

Trust (etbar) :
A person in love must have a blind Trust to whom it loves. Trust is some thing you can say, If a person to whom you love, doing many things which you, yourself didn't like as those things may create complication b/w you and that person. But still you are allowing it to do. As you know that it will never move away or can say fall in its flux, or consistent on its personality than your that believe is called Trust.

Why Trust and believe are separately mentioned?
Trust in a thing or person is ongoing... believe decides on one item at a time.

What is Sacrifice?

Sacrifice (Esaar Khubani) :
A person in love must have this quality. Sacrifice is something you can say, If a person ask you that it didn't love you, i didn't need you then you have to give sacrifice if your love is true. If you can't sacrifice than it isn't love. What ever it ask from you, you have to do it.


Note: "it" stands for He/She.


There are many sub kinds of Love some of them Em stating here:


Allah love its people more than 70 mothers.
Love b/w mother and children
Love b/w sister and sister
Love b/w brother and brother
Love b/w Sister and Brother
Love b/w a boy and a girl.....

These are all sub kinds of love. And what i have explained a love is the Basic thing. Which is present in every kind of love.


There is only one basic Definition of Love according to me and in the light of that Definition I've Concluded

Pure/True Love is something:
True Love is done with Nature (Seerat/Baatin) not with looks(Surat/Jism/zahir).
True Love is a virtual link B/w two or more mind sets.

True Love never Ends, But if there is a so called love with Look(Surat/Jism/Zahir) than a day will come when it will comes to End. As no beauty is forever. There is no one in this universe whose body will remain same.

Love is Indeed Beauty, but it comes in the sub kind of Beauty as there are two sub kinds of Beauty

Beauty Seen with necked eye

And Beauty which is inside (like beauty of heart/Serat).


A question was raised by one of my friend

True love complete hi trust or feelings se hota he. Sacrifice se nahi. Sacrifice love ke bad ki stage he.

Answer:


No my dear. I can prove it. Its also a root....it didn't comes after love.

I can explain you by giving you an example


A person in love with someone, a true love, to whom he loves if it didn't want him/her to be with it. Than he/she has to sacrifice and leave it for its happiness. This is called Sacrifice.

A person in love with some but didn't told it. and it likes someone else and wants to be with him/her. Than that person must do sacrifice for its happiness by keeping his/her own feeling in his/her heart only. this is also sacrifice.


i.e I said love is a combination of feelings, believe, trust and sacrifice.


Question:

"Mein ne ye dekha dunya mein logun ku 2 tarhan ke love hute hein".

Ek RoOH se aur Ek CAR (Jism) se."


Answer:


At this point I want to clear a point to you, according to pure definition of love, Love
takes Birth when there are four thing namely Feelings, believe trust and sacrifice.

As you said there are two types of love in this world. (This Statement is wrong)

Now Em going to prove you how it is wrong.

You have seen me using a Word "True Love" I use this Word Just Because of the
Statements like you gave "Ek CAR (Jism) se".

For Example:

A male in love(so called) with female at her age of 23 years. She is so beautiful thats why he fall in love by seeing her. After the Age of 40 the whole physique of female is changed. That male was in love with her just because beauty (of her Body/Jism/Zahir). But when that Beauty (of her Body/Jism/Zahir) ends. The Love (so called) will also end. This isn't Love because it never ends.


According to Me "Ek CAR (Jism) se" That isn't Love. It is an attraction towards
beauty (of Its Body/Jism/Zahir) for some time and when that disappears that attraction will all came to an End.


Love is a precious gift of God if it is Pure. True Love never End. And if there is a true love there will be these four things Believe, Trust, Feelings and Sacrifice. This is called Love.


Again a question was raised

Driver ki driving ka tab he pata chalta hai jab aap usko driving karte hue dekhain

similarly, jab taak aap Insaan ke saath koi 1 ya 2 yrs and usko different occasions pe dealing karte hue nahi dekh lete ap o Rooh ka pata nae chalta. unless and Until Admi ku is reality ka pata na hu ju mein ne abhe batai

Rooh >Driver<
Human Body >Car<
Driving Course >Earth<

This is for ur Driver's Only>>"Always remember this is all fake".<<

Sooner or later this has to end.



in Simple Words

Love needs a beauty.

in difficult words love is the connection of souls.


Answer:


It was just explanation of "Ek CAR (Jism) se" this, this isn't Love its only attraction.



Regarding Your Second Point I agree with You as me too is saying this only.

//Questioner : "Driver ki driving ka tab he pata chalta hai jab aap usko driving karte hue dekhain

similarly, jab taak aap Insaan ke saath koi 1 ya 2 yrs and usko different occasions pe dealing karte hue nahi dekh lete ap o Rooh ka pata nae chalta. unless and Until Admi ku is reality ka pata na hu ju mein ne abhe batai"//


according to my definition of Love that Four things (Believe, trust, Feelings, Sacrifice) will come with the passage of time...But there isn't any time limit as you said 1 ya 2 yrs. It’s a Connection of mind or can say a Virtual Link b/w two minds when this link is created Love is in them.

But I don't agree on your point "Love needs a beauty".
My Answer is Yes and No.

There are you sense to see this point.

If you are trying to say Love needs Beauty of Heart (Nature/Seerat/Baatin) than its Correct.

But You are trying to say Love needs Beauty of Appearance (Suraat/Zahir) than its wrong. As I've cleared in above posts, Appearance never ever be same till last. It changes with the passage of time. And if there is love with Appearance (Suraat/Zahir) when it is changed this love (so-called) will also End.

But True love never End. If it is with Heart (Nature/Seerat/Baatin).


Question: "Sooner or later this has to end."



Your This sentence isn't correct... True Love never End. People die but there Love Never ends if it is Truly Loyal.


You are giving attraction the name of Love. But it isn't.

There is a Big difference B/w Love and attraction.


There is a misconception between people in our society; they gave attraction the name of Love.


Difference B/w Love and Attraction:

Mohabbat seerat se hoti hai.

Attraction suraat se.

Mohabbat kabhi khatam nahi hoti.

Attraction khatam ho jati hai.

Mohabbat main shakal or Surat koi ehmiyat nahi rakhti.

Attraction main shakal or surat ki hai ehmiyat hoti hai.

Mohabbat Shakal or Suraat badalne se khatam nahi hoti

Attraction Shakal or Suraat badalne se khatam ho jati hai.


Now Em moving towards the Extreme position of love,

We have seen people saying that he/she is become mad or insane person in love. I have realized that when a person in love Is truly loyal to the person whom it is in love,

Yeah who moqam hota hai jab insan ki apni zaat khatam hojati hai or jis se who love main hota hai us ki zaat uss per hawi ho jati hai. Or yeah moqam woh hota hai jisay duniya pagalpan or dewange kehti hai. Or jo insan dewangi ki uss haad pe hota hai usay apne love ki haar haar baat pe itayfaq hota hai. Uski haar baat akhri samajhta hai Us ki haar chiz achi lagnay lagti hai, koi bhi baat buri nahi lagti, or agar koi baat buri ho bhi to usay asay khatam kardetay hain jasay kuch tha hi nahi.

This is called the extreme position of Love.



This is all which I’ve concluded. This is my own thinking, it might be possible people may differ from my thinking.